ok. lets talk about hymens.
What is the hymen?
- People think that its a layer over the vagina that needs to be broken in order for penetration to happen.
- actually, the hymen does not completely cover the vagina at all. Its a very thin elastic membrane that is either right outside the vagina, or inside.
- the hymen actually remains apart of your anatomy for your ENTIRE life. it never leaves.
So what does it do???
- the hymen is never broken, its just stretched.
- when penetration happens for the first time, the hymen is just stretching to accommodate whatever you are shoving in there.
- so you can literally stretch this thing with ANYTHING. And not just penis shaped stuff too; tampons, fingers, or even rigorous exorcising can stretch you hymen
- if you are not properly lubricated, then stretching can turn into TEARING, which hurts and can cause a little blood.
Does sex with a hymen feel different than sex without?
- Ok, first of all, just because you are a virgin and may have your hymen intact does not mean you are tighter or whatever. You vaginal wall adapts to survive, and will change during sexual arousal. The vaginal walls will swell with blood, making the vagina seem tighter. The vaginal canal will expand lengthwise to accommodate thing being inserted inside. However, the vaginal shape will remain roughly the same throughout your life. if you have a wide set vagina, you have a wide set vagina. If you have narrow hips, our vagina will be very tight. Its just the way it is.
- That said, no, jfc, if a dude says he can FEEL if you are a virgin, punch him in the dick and do not sleep with him PLEASE DEAR GOD.
- also, if he says he has to BREAK you cherry, in order to penetrate you HAHAHAHAHA not true. He needs to get you adequately aroused, and go slow, as to not TEAR it. The hymen is just no used to that kind of friction and needs to be eased into sex. Once the hymen has been properly stretched, its good to go.
- If you dont have sex/penetration for a long time, the hymen will move back into place and will need to be stretched again.
- every girls hymen is different; some cover alot, some dont cover much (there is actually a medical condition where the hymen covers the whole vagina which is VERY RARE and the hymen will need to be perforated by a medical professional), but they ALL need to be stretched gently before the first penetration.
Will preliminary penetration help with stretching?
- well, yes, obviously. you can stretch out your hymen yourself by masturbating. Go slow, wait until you are properly aroused, and slowly insert a penis like object into yourself (idk, a cucumber with a condom on it for example. or a dildo. use whatcha got). Start off only a little bit, and gradually move it deeper inside yourself. Once youve taken it as far as you can, repeat this a few times until you feel comfortable with it.
- Of course, this preliminary stretching wont last long, your hymen will shrink back down a bit. Mostly it will just help you get used to sensation of being penetrated and make it easier for you to know when you are ready to be penetrated.
Hopefully this helped. I swear, the misconceptions about hymens freAKING KILL ME UGH.
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Can a virgin break their Hymen with a finger or something? My boyfriend wants to have sex, however I'm nervous it will hurt. I masturbate but only use clitoral stimulation, I've never penetrated to opening. Will doing so help ease the pain or totally eliminate it?
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"My son" "Our son *hurt voice*":
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"I need a baby" "flattered but uninterested":
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